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My Husband Family

​I miss my family. It’s 1:28 am, Monday May 29 ,2023 and I really miss my family. It’s been a week or two since I finally confirmed that my husband's family did not like me. I always felt that they did not accept me, but it was different hearing a confirmation. Their ideas about me hurt. Their judgment about me is based on a 2-hour interaction they’ve had with me the 2 years that we’ve lived in North Carolina.  How there they make assumptions that I don’t clean, cook, attend my husband when they have never seen any aspect from me. They do not know what my day to day life is like. To which they have never asked but somehow know my whole life story? How there they say they love/care their brother/son by talking bad about me. How there they have so much negativity within our marriage when none of them knows what it’s like to have a healthy communication marriage. How there they say that they cannot prove our marriage is healthy unless we go to marriage counseling. How there they have